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We got a pull-up bar because my daughter's coach was yelling at her for not being able to do 10 pull-ups (she had just turned 6). Obviously DD was very upset by this so we bought the bar. Now that we're at a new gym with effective coaches that respect my daughter and actually coach her into learning new skills and better conditioning, she rarely uses the bar.
I'm a firm believer in allowing the coaches to do the coaching. Of course, that was only after we found the right coaches. Honestly, most coaches recommend no formal practice at home. Most believe that it adds no benefit and can also impede their growth as a gymnast.
Honestly, gymnastics is a S L O W sport. As a parent and a gymnast, you must be patient. As many wiser in the gymnastics community have said before me, "gymnastics is a marathon, not a sprint." Honestly, at 4.5 yo I would just let DD enjoy gymnastics with not much talk of it (unless she initiates it) or pressure on her "off" time at home. It's amazing as parents how we can add pressure our children without even realizing. We show an interest and really like something and they try to please.
Take care,
Sue Z
Last edited by mtbmom; 06-06-2008 at 12:17 PM.
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