So this is mostly a question for coaches.
I switched gyms at the beginning of this year (September), and our first meet is in 2 months.
I have aspergers, and was going to tell the coaches when i started, and then didn't, and i keep putting it off because things are fine right now.
I feel like I should probably tell the coaches before meet season, because meets are far more stressful than practice, and my 'difficulties' tend to show up more at meets (ie, last year i started crying during DMT finals. not enough to make it unsafe, and not because i was sad or anything. i was just so worn out from all the overload all weekend that i needed to do something, and crying was the least disruptive)
However, i told my last coach, and it didnt go so well. I told her at the beginning of the year, and gave her a sheet that had gym specific things i had problems with, and suggestions. she mostly ignored it, and seemed to think i was just being a butthead, and never asked me anything (after i told her she never brought it up again).
My new coaches are fantastic, but i am still worried that i will be ruining a good thing.
So as a coach, would you want to know, and how would maybe be the best way to bring it up?
I switched gyms at the beginning of this year (September), and our first meet is in 2 months.
I have aspergers, and was going to tell the coaches when i started, and then didn't, and i keep putting it off because things are fine right now.
I feel like I should probably tell the coaches before meet season, because meets are far more stressful than practice, and my 'difficulties' tend to show up more at meets (ie, last year i started crying during DMT finals. not enough to make it unsafe, and not because i was sad or anything. i was just so worn out from all the overload all weekend that i needed to do something, and crying was the least disruptive)
However, i told my last coach, and it didnt go so well. I told her at the beginning of the year, and gave her a sheet that had gym specific things i had problems with, and suggestions. she mostly ignored it, and seemed to think i was just being a butthead, and never asked me anything (after i told her she never brought it up again).
My new coaches are fantastic, but i am still worried that i will be ruining a good thing.
So as a coach, would you want to know, and how would maybe be the best way to bring it up?