It would be great for this community if you could PM someone like @dunno and let them know what gym your DD was at. A lot of people go to him with questions about new gyms they are considering. I am so sorry about what your DD went through and hope other little girls don't have to go through this too.
He knows where we came from and gave us the recommendation of the new gym with absolutely wonderful coaches. We just need her to realize again that this is different from the past, these coaches truly are good and won't turn mean and they truly believe in her.