- Moderator
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Without going into any specific situation, I have a philosophical/ethical question:
Suppose there is a kid at your gym who has been there for a long time. Suppose they are about to move to another gym which they believe will be better for them, but which you have reason to believe will not.
To what extent is it ethical and professional and acceptable to try to convince them to stick around? If you believe that they are being led to the other gym under false pretenses, to what extent do you say so? Do you say it to the gymnast or the parent?
I think most of us can agree that it is unprofessional to speak ill of a competing gym on general principal. Does it remain unprofessional if everything you say is true?
Most of us coaches see our students as something like family, and would be devastated to lose them, especially if we believe the move is not in their best interest. Is it acceptable to try to talk them out of the move if the only way to do so is to speak negatively about another gym?
Again, I want to avoid discussion of specific situations here, and discuss this on a philosophical level.
Suppose there is a kid at your gym who has been there for a long time. Suppose they are about to move to another gym which they believe will be better for them, but which you have reason to believe will not.
To what extent is it ethical and professional and acceptable to try to convince them to stick around? If you believe that they are being led to the other gym under false pretenses, to what extent do you say so? Do you say it to the gymnast or the parent?
I think most of us can agree that it is unprofessional to speak ill of a competing gym on general principal. Does it remain unprofessional if everything you say is true?
Most of us coaches see our students as something like family, and would be devastated to lose them, especially if we believe the move is not in their best interest. Is it acceptable to try to talk them out of the move if the only way to do so is to speak negatively about another gym?
Again, I want to avoid discussion of specific situations here, and discuss this on a philosophical level.