maddiemei
Proud Parent
So we have been at our gym since April of this year. We left old gym because DD was kept in the pre school class, way to many kids and she was bored. We found this gym and was happy with it. There have been 3 coach changes since we have been here in April, but her current coach has been here since August and I was happy with her until recently. DD is on pre team 2 and should move up to level 3 in January. The ages of the girls are 6 - 7.
Here's my problem/complaint/vent/whatever you want to call it. There is a girl in the group who is the "baby" of the group. Problem is she's almost 7 and she's not a baby, but everybody treats her like it, including coaches. Mom is never here. She drops her off and then leaves. She never sees her daughter cry. She never puts her daughter's hair up correctly. It's a pain. I don't mind the drop off and not staying, but if you daughter is going to act like a little baby then you need to stay. The frustrating part is the coaches constantly treat her like it. The coaches will snap at my daughter and 3 others primarily (there are 8 on the team), but this one little "princess" can't seem to do anything wrong. I'm not the only mother that feels this way. Also the kids feel this way as well. Last week my daughter accidently ran into "princess" and she started crying about her fingers. Coach snapped at DD and DD came running over and said she was sorry and didn't mean to do it. She got put in timeout for running into "princess". Several of the mothers, including myself were very upset about it. It wasn't fair to DD and it was an accident. After class the coach lined them all up and gave them the we are team speech and so forth. Well after class we asked the girls what happened and my DD and two other DD's said it was because of DD hurting "princess' fingers. Well princess mother calls me after class and says princess said it was because two other girls were not getting along. Well that wasn't the truth.
I'm actually really tired of it and tired watching it. I don't normally complain about it and I wouldn't complain about it except I'm just tired of it. The mother thinks her daughter is the greatest and doesn't understand why she isn't competing yet. Well if she was here, she would see why.
I guess I'm just venting, but I feel like something should be said. The mother needs to stay with her daughter if her daughter is constantly going to cry. She knows her daughter does this, but she says this is her "me" time. Several of the mothers and I have a great relationship with the owner of the gym. Should we say something to her about this child? Part of me just feels I should leave it alone and just let it go, but it affects how my daughter enjoys gym.
Thanks for reading and sorry it was long.
Here's my problem/complaint/vent/whatever you want to call it. There is a girl in the group who is the "baby" of the group. Problem is she's almost 7 and she's not a baby, but everybody treats her like it, including coaches. Mom is never here. She drops her off and then leaves. She never sees her daughter cry. She never puts her daughter's hair up correctly. It's a pain. I don't mind the drop off and not staying, but if you daughter is going to act like a little baby then you need to stay. The frustrating part is the coaches constantly treat her like it. The coaches will snap at my daughter and 3 others primarily (there are 8 on the team), but this one little "princess" can't seem to do anything wrong. I'm not the only mother that feels this way. Also the kids feel this way as well. Last week my daughter accidently ran into "princess" and she started crying about her fingers. Coach snapped at DD and DD came running over and said she was sorry and didn't mean to do it. She got put in timeout for running into "princess". Several of the mothers, including myself were very upset about it. It wasn't fair to DD and it was an accident. After class the coach lined them all up and gave them the we are team speech and so forth. Well after class we asked the girls what happened and my DD and two other DD's said it was because of DD hurting "princess' fingers. Well princess mother calls me after class and says princess said it was because two other girls were not getting along. Well that wasn't the truth.
I'm actually really tired of it and tired watching it. I don't normally complain about it and I wouldn't complain about it except I'm just tired of it. The mother thinks her daughter is the greatest and doesn't understand why she isn't competing yet. Well if she was here, she would see why.
I guess I'm just venting, but I feel like something should be said. The mother needs to stay with her daughter if her daughter is constantly going to cry. She knows her daughter does this, but she says this is her "me" time. Several of the mothers and I have a great relationship with the owner of the gym. Should we say something to her about this child? Part of me just feels I should leave it alone and just let it go, but it affects how my daughter enjoys gym.
Thanks for reading and sorry it was long.