So my dd goes to gym today and finds out that one of the best gymnasts on team is quiting due to some medical issue and she says to me " Mom I am feeling I don't have to have better moves than everyone else, I just have to avoid getting hurt or sick." Found out 1 gymnast quit today due to some strange bone illness(we are worried, Talked to mom) and 2 others due to small stress fractures. What on earth do I say to her? I don't think it is a matter of survivial but what do I say in the face of this?