munchkin3
Proud Parent
OMG! DH and I were mortified! We had a meeting with coach to follow up on progress and to address behavior issues in the whole team, and it turns out DS is creating most of the drama. We knew he had issues with a couple of bragging kids that were constantly pointing out how awesome they do, and how crappy others do. From here, my DS (13) has taken issue and has split the team. Those who are injured and struggling, and those who are advancing. I can't believe that my kid has made this negative conclusion, and is leading this.
DH and I told him under no uncertain terms that he is to keep his mouth shut the second he enters the gym and to focus on working.....working only! The problem is my son feels that it is the coach and the kids who are against him, and are 'pinning' everything on him. I feel he got himself in this situation. He has messed up. And he needs to shut it and work for the time being and literally stop talking. If it continues, he cannot be in a place where he is working against the team and his coach.
Any advice???
DH and I told him under no uncertain terms that he is to keep his mouth shut the second he enters the gym and to focus on working.....working only! The problem is my son feels that it is the coach and the kids who are against him, and are 'pinning' everything on him. I feel he got himself in this situation. He has messed up. And he needs to shut it and work for the time being and literally stop talking. If it continues, he cannot be in a place where he is working against the team and his coach.
Any advice???