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    WAG Wondering about Men's Team (former or current) about Nassar

    I haven't seen reactions in the media about either former or current Men's team members about what has happened to their teammates and (most likely) friends. Has there been a cry for organizational change from them as well? Nassar's victims were girls but boys are just as vulnerable to...
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    Parents Gymnast not eating well

    Not based on anything other than my personal thoughts. Lots of people are talking about chocolate milk which I am a believer in. I just recently switched my kids to whole milk. It has extra calories and milk fat for energy. My kids are not big eaters so it is a way to put more calories into...
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    Parents Moving to Illinois

    Welcome to Illinois! It sounds like you will be pretty far North up there in Barrington/Crystal Lake. There are a lot of choices for gyms and excellent schools up there. As the mom of a high school age kids I can tell you that high school is more intense than middle/grade school. I know that...
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    Parents Sever's Question

    Ice, massage, stretch, heel cups, caution and patience. My DD dealt with this for several months (almost a year). We did a combination of these things to manage the pain and then almost as mysteriously as it started, it stopped. We kept doing all of those things when the pain subsided for...
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    WAG Disturbing article (IndyStar Article on USA Gymnastics Enabling Sexual Abuse)

    While I 100% agree that you go to the police first I think that part of the problem is the fact that these are such serious allegations and sometimes society is quick to judge the victim. Is she a CGM who thinks her daughter has been passed over? Will another gym take the child if they think...
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    WAG Disturbing article (IndyStar Article on USA Gymnastics Enabling Sexual Abuse)

    Isn't one of the points of the article that USAG was protecting its institution rather than the kids? This is news and if it hurts more now because people are excited about gymnastics than I am ok with that. I don't care who you are, successful USAG, successful NCAA, Boy Scouts, Catholic...
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    Parents Picking a gym

    When my kids were 3 years old a 45 minute car ride for gymnastics would have put a serious damper on the fun. 45 minute ride for a (probably) 40 minute class and then another 45 minute ride would have tainted the experience. Find some place that is fun and makes her want more. Save the boring...
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    WAG Transitioning to Middle School with Gymnastics

    My DD just finished her 6th grade year and the homework was significant. I know that she spent many recesses trying to get her homework done because her day was long like your DD. What helped my daughter mentally was that we talked to her coach at the start of the school year and asked her...
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    Parents Privates?

    You might want to consider focusing your private lessons on strength and conditioning as well as flexibility. The private lessons may also give you some ideas for safe conditioning outside of the gym. Being strong and flexible gives coaches the chance to teach the skills as they want them done...
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    Parents Confession time....

    I bought two and then had g-ma buy one.
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    Off Topic OT for parents:Cell phone monitoring

    Cell phones are a part of our everyday life. And they come in pretty handy when you need to communicate with your children. At our house it is clear from day one that the cell phone is the parent's property that we are allowing the children to use. Since it is my property I have full access...
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    Parents Non gym parents & Elite question

    I usually say she loves it and that I am not sure my furniture could survive her going less. I also point out how much it teaches time management to be able to get done the things you have to get done and still be able to do the things you love.
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    WAG Scared of failure...

    As a parent I try to remember to tell stories of my own failures. Usually at the dinner table. Big failures, small failures are shared equally with the successes. I find that having an atmosphere of acceptance of being human helps soften the inevitable fails. I don't directly relate it to...
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    Parents 2005+ Gymnast Social Group

    Please add me. 2004
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    WAG Upper Body Strength

    We bought my dd one of those chin up bars that hangs in a doorway. We hung it up in our kitchen (yes, I know Frat House decorating) but it has made a difference. The only thing she is allowed to do is chin ups (maybe some leg lifts) but she will do a few as I am talking to her while working in...
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    Parents Bigger sizes?

    Several outlet malls have Land's End stores (here in the Midwest).
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    WAG How sick to keep your kid home?

    I have the no school=no gym policy as well. Also, I think that even the cleanest gym is awful germy and I really don't want to send a run-down kid into the gym because she may pick up more germs in her run-down state. Rest and hydration I think is the most helpful thing when recovering from a...
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    Parents Did your child compete before ready or wait?

    I have seen huge scoring differences in what looks like the same skill due to lack of proper form. Compulsories are brutal about form and you need strength to get the form. Without it those little deductions are killer. Both my daughter and her friend competed seasons where watching from the...
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    Parents Advice for families new to competition

    Siblings have a hard time with all the attention and boredom of meets. If you can make alternative arrangements for them do it. By the time you pay their admission fee and concessions you have probably already paid the cost of a babysitter. Don't listen to the other parents who think they...
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    Parents I think I need a little help understanding it all......

    Watching 200 RO at practice when you know she can do a ROBHS is frustrating but a necessary part of the JO programs. I have seen older girls go from rec to JO and not understand why they are doing 200 RO when they have their ROBHS. It has to do with gymnastics form and (I think) coaches...

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