I'm curious. Where do you think the line is?
Is the line in the language used? Is it in the reaction / effect on the gymnast?
I know there are many parents, in all sports, that have the mindset - as long as we win it's all good.
I'll be the first to admit my daughter has been yelled a but it was in the same way I would have yelled at her. She was upset but things needed to be said to her and she needed to hear them. They motivated her. But what if it hadn't motivated her?
If you watch Dance Moms (don't judge me - I have a love/hate relationship with that horrible show)
They have a "make" / "break" survey thing going on. When things happen they ask at the bottom of the screen for people to tweet Make or Break. Is what is happening making the dancer or breaking the dancer and the responses are always so mixed.
What are your thoughts on coaches, how would you determine that fine line?
Is the line in the language used? Is it in the reaction / effect on the gymnast?
I know there are many parents, in all sports, that have the mindset - as long as we win it's all good.
I'll be the first to admit my daughter has been yelled a but it was in the same way I would have yelled at her. She was upset but things needed to be said to her and she needed to hear them. They motivated her. But what if it hadn't motivated her?
If you watch Dance Moms (don't judge me - I have a love/hate relationship with that horrible show)
They have a "make" / "break" survey thing going on. When things happen they ask at the bottom of the screen for people to tweet Make or Break. Is what is happening making the dancer or breaking the dancer and the responses are always so mixed.
What are your thoughts on coaches, how would you determine that fine line?