LIGYMMOM
Proud Parent
My DD is 9 and just beginning her second year of competition, new L4. She has been at her current gym for a few years and after we decided we loved the gym, signed up, I sat down to watch and am informed...I am not allowed to stay and watch practice. Huh??? I have always watched. I love to watch her do her thing and progress, have even learned to bite my tongue when all I want to do is correct.
I understand the reasoning, we gym moms can be distracting, we can add pressure without meaning it, we can get a bit competitive and a little to "comparing". Now, I did watch her very first practice there and was very pleased with the training she got and the respect the kids are given. I don't believe there is anything going on that the gym owner would not want us to see, it's not that. I just feel like I've been somewhat taken out of the equation. I only get to see her perform at meets and never get to see what she can really do. This makes me sad. The other day I saw her run across the grass and do a R (5) perfect BHS's and I was like "when did you learn that?!"
What are your thoughts on watching vs. not allowed to watch? Anyone with me?
I understand the reasoning, we gym moms can be distracting, we can add pressure without meaning it, we can get a bit competitive and a little to "comparing". Now, I did watch her very first practice there and was very pleased with the training she got and the respect the kids are given. I don't believe there is anything going on that the gym owner would not want us to see, it's not that. I just feel like I've been somewhat taken out of the equation. I only get to see her perform at meets and never get to see what she can really do. This makes me sad. The other day I saw her run across the grass and do a R (5) perfect BHS's and I was like "when did you learn that?!"
What are your thoughts on watching vs. not allowed to watch? Anyone with me?