Last night was the most surreal night of my gym dad adventure. I dropped my daughter off gym and headed out to volleyball practice and school shopping and the myriad other things that our busy family does every day. We show back up to the gym about 15 minutes before practice is through. My wife and I are chatting with some other gym parents and then I glance out on the floor. I COULDN'T BELIEVE MY EYES!!! My daughter's main little rival is on the floor right next to my daughter.
A little background on them: her rival joined our previous gym (our first gym) about a month before we switched to our current gym (the gym of our choice and my daughter's heart- she LOVES it). They competed back and forth all last season, going first and second at states.
I have always secretly hoped that my daughter's rival would come to our gym. She is a FANTASTIC gymnast and a great talent who would really benefit from training at our gym. I was elated to see her there. I also like her parents. I just worried about how my daughter would react.
As usual, I was worried about NOTHING. My daughter was completely cool about it and really hopes that they will make the switch. She is just happy to make her team better and this gymnast (if she does choose our gym) certainly does this. I love my daughter's mentality! When I was a kid (and this may just be a "boy thing") I NEVER wanted a rival on my team. I wanted to beat the rival not work with them. I love that my daughter is so welcoming and seems to never be threatened by having another really good gymnast right next to her.
This doesn't seem to be unique to my little one, though. From what I have seen, the vast majority of gymnasts are this way. It's so cool to be involved in a sport (even if it is just as a parent) that really seems to have the right competetive balance.
A little background on them: her rival joined our previous gym (our first gym) about a month before we switched to our current gym (the gym of our choice and my daughter's heart- she LOVES it). They competed back and forth all last season, going first and second at states.
I have always secretly hoped that my daughter's rival would come to our gym. She is a FANTASTIC gymnast and a great talent who would really benefit from training at our gym. I was elated to see her there. I also like her parents. I just worried about how my daughter would react.
As usual, I was worried about NOTHING. My daughter was completely cool about it and really hopes that they will make the switch. She is just happy to make her team better and this gymnast (if she does choose our gym) certainly does this. I love my daughter's mentality! When I was a kid (and this may just be a "boy thing") I NEVER wanted a rival on my team. I wanted to beat the rival not work with them. I love that my daughter is so welcoming and seems to never be threatened by having another really good gymnast right next to her.
This doesn't seem to be unique to my little one, though. From what I have seen, the vast majority of gymnasts are this way. It's so cool to be involved in a sport (even if it is just as a parent) that really seems to have the right competetive balance.