I just came home from the gym, and am feeling pretty low. I was told they did not want my DD to move from the level 3 developmental class to the level 3 competitive team. She turned 6 in December, and is doing well in her class. Sometimes she is a little goofy, and she has a stubborn streak, but she is just in Kindergarten - what do they expect?
Three months ago, two of her current coaches told me to prepare for her to move to team this summer (i.e. start saving my money). DD was thrilled, and so excited. They had one in-house meet this winter, and she loved it. She had the second-highest all-around score of all the kids there. She was looking forward to real competitions next year.
Tonight, I found out they want her to repeat another year of developmental. Already she is bored in her current class. They spend a lot of time working pullovers, back hip circles, back-bend kick-overs, and other skills my DD has long ago mastered (as a former competitive gymnast, I have a decent knowledge base and eye for correct form). Most of the kids in her class can't yet kick over from a bridge, and my DD has her back walkover. She is the only kid with a solid pullover and back hip circle. The coach makes all of the girls work on the same skills, so my DD doesn't have a chance to uptrain. I think my DD goofs off sometimes because she is not being challenged.
I had a previous thread on here about my DD's issues with pre-team and a few cruel coaches. If I put my DD in another year of developmental, she will have those coaches again.
I feel sad about the whole situation because my DD was so excited to move to team. She was lead to believe that from several of her coaches (and me). Now our only choices are pre-team with the cruel coaches or a beginner recreational class where she will be working forward rolls, cartwheels, and pullovers when DD really needs (and wants) to learn back handsprings, front hip circles and kips. (She tries these skills at open gym with the older girls.)
I am seriously considering switching gyms. We have one other gym in our area, that is a complete rival/enemy to our current gym (where DD has attended class for 3 years now). The gym owners and head coaches actually have some kind of feud going on.
I did call the other gym to ask about their summer classes. They have a very good deal, so it will cost a bit less for us. Also, the person I talked to asked me to bring DD in for a skill evaluation so they can place her in the correct class. I am very tempted. I can take her tomorrow morning. If I sign her up for summer classes early, there is a discount.
However, I'm afraid if DD mentions to her current coach that she tried out at the other gym, there will be hurt feelings or worse. They make take it out on DD. I feel bad asking DD to keep it a secret.
I just don't know what to do. DD loves gymnastics, and I want her to be able to progress and have fun.
Any advice would be very much appreciated!
Three months ago, two of her current coaches told me to prepare for her to move to team this summer (i.e. start saving my money). DD was thrilled, and so excited. They had one in-house meet this winter, and she loved it. She had the second-highest all-around score of all the kids there. She was looking forward to real competitions next year.
Tonight, I found out they want her to repeat another year of developmental. Already she is bored in her current class. They spend a lot of time working pullovers, back hip circles, back-bend kick-overs, and other skills my DD has long ago mastered (as a former competitive gymnast, I have a decent knowledge base and eye for correct form). Most of the kids in her class can't yet kick over from a bridge, and my DD has her back walkover. She is the only kid with a solid pullover and back hip circle. The coach makes all of the girls work on the same skills, so my DD doesn't have a chance to uptrain. I think my DD goofs off sometimes because she is not being challenged.
I had a previous thread on here about my DD's issues with pre-team and a few cruel coaches. If I put my DD in another year of developmental, she will have those coaches again.
I feel sad about the whole situation because my DD was so excited to move to team. She was lead to believe that from several of her coaches (and me). Now our only choices are pre-team with the cruel coaches or a beginner recreational class where she will be working forward rolls, cartwheels, and pullovers when DD really needs (and wants) to learn back handsprings, front hip circles and kips. (She tries these skills at open gym with the older girls.)
I am seriously considering switching gyms. We have one other gym in our area, that is a complete rival/enemy to our current gym (where DD has attended class for 3 years now). The gym owners and head coaches actually have some kind of feud going on.
I did call the other gym to ask about their summer classes. They have a very good deal, so it will cost a bit less for us. Also, the person I talked to asked me to bring DD in for a skill evaluation so they can place her in the correct class. I am very tempted. I can take her tomorrow morning. If I sign her up for summer classes early, there is a discount.
However, I'm afraid if DD mentions to her current coach that she tried out at the other gym, there will be hurt feelings or worse. They make take it out on DD. I feel bad asking DD to keep it a secret.
I just don't know what to do. DD loves gymnastics, and I want her to be able to progress and have fun.
Any advice would be very much appreciated!