littlegirlsdream
Proud Parent
I was wondering how does everyone/anyone stay out of the drama/gossip of the gym. It is challenge to not get swept up in all of it . It seems like you are somehow not "involved" if you don't stand around and participate in the banter. The banter that appears nice enough on the surface but I know can and will be used against you later behind your back.
On a bigger level how do you keep focused on the big picture, your child as a whole. I ask because there seems to be such a push at my dd gym to be aggressive and push hard to the next level. If the kids cry get hurt or struggle than down comes the thunder because after all they are to be tough they are gymnasts. Keep in mind these kids are 7 to 8 years of age. I slowly find myself adopting these mentalities too because this is the atmosphere of the gym. At the heart of this is my child who I would like to not royally screw up. So I wanted to know how everyone handles remaining sane and focused on the overall well being of the child amid the crazy push until you break atmosphere.
On a bigger level how do you keep focused on the big picture, your child as a whole. I ask because there seems to be such a push at my dd gym to be aggressive and push hard to the next level. If the kids cry get hurt or struggle than down comes the thunder because after all they are to be tough they are gymnasts. Keep in mind these kids are 7 to 8 years of age. I slowly find myself adopting these mentalities too because this is the atmosphere of the gym. At the heart of this is my child who I would like to not royally screw up. So I wanted to know how everyone handles remaining sane and focused on the overall well being of the child amid the crazy push until you break atmosphere.