9 year old daughter is in level 4 and struggling with a new male coach who is regularly upset with her and 1) spraying her with a water bottle, 2) calling her names (i.e. big fat brat, her name is similar to Careless and that is his nickname for her) and 3) screaming/shaming her. I had a carload of the team yesterday and they are all struggling with this guy and his archaic screaming and shaming style; that being said my daughter seems to be struggling more, is in tears a lot, not wanting to go to gymnastics when she usually wants to go extra. She absolutely loves her team and would NOT want to change gyms. I feel so helpless as the Mama. I almost want to call USAG to get their take on a coach like this and whether they see these behaviors as acceptable....do they really want this sport to change or not??? Any suggestions from those who have been with the sport longer?