My daughter is a T&T gymnast and this is her first year to compete. She has some natural talent, and she loves gymnastics and really wants to excell, but she's very negative. If she has a bad day, it sets her back big time. If someone does better than her, it sets her back. If her coach is critical of her performance, it sets her back. It's like one step forward, two steps back with her. No matter how much I try to build her up, I just can't seem to get her in the right attitude. At her first competition this weekend, she did so well on her first tumbling pass. Then she saw the girl after her go and she thought that girl had done better, so when it was my daughter's turn for her second pass, she scratched because she had it in her head that she couldn't get first because another girl was better. And if she doesn't get first, she thinks she's awful and she has failed. I get that to an extent... I mean, if you're not there to win, why bother? But, in her case, if you don't even try because you think someone is better than you, then how will you ever know who was truly better? I am just looking for some tips as to what to tell her to boost her confidence and help her not be so nervous, scared and negative all the time.