Swiftli
Proud Parent
Lord help me decide on something....anything! lol
DD is 9yr old lvl 6. She is scoring about mid to high 34's all season. I haven't seen much improvement in her skills just more consistent. I have been on the fence about switching gyms. I am not pleased with the constant changes in coaches and lack of attention the compulsaries receive at the gym. I know they will move her to 7 next year but honestly I don't think she is ready for it.
Here is my latest dilemna..Our gym is a east coast Y and we have Nationals in San Diego this year. DD is super hyped to go to CA, to stay in a hotel, see the beach, go to Sea World...etc.
I am stressing. I did register her because we had to back in December and bought opening ceremony tickets...$190.
To now find out only about 1/2 her team is going. The trip would only be me and my daughter. DH and 2 boys would stay home for economic reasons. I have to book airfare for us two ($1000 easy), hotel stay for 5 nights (weeklong event, not sure what day she competes, $750), food and entertainment (at least $150).
Many are using this as a family vacation but I can't afford the extra $1500 in airfare. Needless to say our family vacation this year will be cut way back if we even have one. Finances are tight!
DH wants her to go because it is a once in a lifetime trip. Who knows when we would ever go to CA. I really want her to go but in the big picture, should I? As a level 6, Nationals is just like any other invitational just with a little bit more pomp and circumstance. There are some really good Y's in CA so I don't hold anything out for coming away with any placements. Am I just wasting all this money when we could have a nice family vacation?
Why does this have to be so hard to decide!? lol.... I wish I was a millionaire somedays
DD is 9yr old lvl 6. She is scoring about mid to high 34's all season. I haven't seen much improvement in her skills just more consistent. I have been on the fence about switching gyms. I am not pleased with the constant changes in coaches and lack of attention the compulsaries receive at the gym. I know they will move her to 7 next year but honestly I don't think she is ready for it.
Here is my latest dilemna..Our gym is a east coast Y and we have Nationals in San Diego this year. DD is super hyped to go to CA, to stay in a hotel, see the beach, go to Sea World...etc.
I am stressing. I did register her because we had to back in December and bought opening ceremony tickets...$190.
To now find out only about 1/2 her team is going. The trip would only be me and my daughter. DH and 2 boys would stay home for economic reasons. I have to book airfare for us two ($1000 easy), hotel stay for 5 nights (weeklong event, not sure what day she competes, $750), food and entertainment (at least $150).
Many are using this as a family vacation but I can't afford the extra $1500 in airfare. Needless to say our family vacation this year will be cut way back if we even have one. Finances are tight!
DH wants her to go because it is a once in a lifetime trip. Who knows when we would ever go to CA. I really want her to go but in the big picture, should I? As a level 6, Nationals is just like any other invitational just with a little bit more pomp and circumstance. There are some really good Y's in CA so I don't hold anything out for coming away with any placements. Am I just wasting all this money when we could have a nice family vacation?
Why does this have to be so hard to decide!? lol.... I wish I was a millionaire somedays
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