I'll warn you in advance that this will be long...
I found out about a month or so ago that Anna's entire pre-team group (about 15 girls) were going to be moved up to Level 4. I was completely shocked because I never in a million years thought she was ready. For one thing, she's 5. She's got most of the Level 3 skills but they're usually not pretty. She has a lot of work to do on form. She's probably middle of the pack in her group as far as how well she's doing. There are a couple of girls who can still barely do cartwheels and decent handstands...so I thought it a bit odd that they were moving everyone up.
We got the official invite about a week or so ago by email. After looking at the costs and huge increase in hours (1.5/day to 3.5/day) we decided to keep Anna back on pre-team. She's so young still, at 5, so really...what's the rush, right? So as exciting as it felt to have Anna invited to Level 4, I felt that it was best for our family to leave her at pre-team.
So. Fast forward to this week. We were told that there would be no practice this week and Level 4 would start next week (assuming that everyone was moving up to Level 4). Another parent who I'm friendly with and who is also wanting to hold her daughter back had emailed the head coach asking if she could bring her daughter for pre-team practice since they weren't moving up. The coach said yes but it was likely she'd be the only one there....and she was. They apparently tried really really hard to persuade them to move their daughter up, but they held their ground. They asked one of Anna's coaches if they'd have practice Thursday (today) and were told yes, and that another child would be joining them who was in their group and not moving up. So she called me and told me that I should bring Anna.
So I show up with Anna and the lady at the front desk tells me that the two coaches called in and said they weren't coming in because there was no pre-team practice....and that there probably wouldn't be for the rest of the session. Whaaa?? And that was the start of a whole frustrating evening at the gym. They ended up letting our 3 girls practice with a different coach for an hour (not even the full hour and a half). The head coach and owner were out of town at a meet..so we couldn't even talk to them. Towards the end of the hour, the two coaches showed up (to teach other classes), saw we were there but didn't say a single word to us. We got the cold shoulder. It felt horrible. The three of us felt like outcasts for not wanting our daughters moved up.
I walked out of that gym feeling just horrible. These coaches have been with my daughter since September...I've talked to them numerous times..and we don't even get a "Hi, how's it going?" or even a "Why aren't you letting Anna move up?" Nothing.
It made me want to cry, to be honest. I love that gym. Everyone was always so nice...I guess until you go against their advice. It was just so frustrating.
So we're looking at other options now. I think she would have the same pre-team coaches if we stayed and I'm just not sure I want that. Ugh.
So so sorry this was so long. There's a lot more that I didn't include because it would have made it even longer. If you made it this far, I applaud and thank you.
I found out about a month or so ago that Anna's entire pre-team group (about 15 girls) were going to be moved up to Level 4. I was completely shocked because I never in a million years thought she was ready. For one thing, she's 5. She's got most of the Level 3 skills but they're usually not pretty. She has a lot of work to do on form. She's probably middle of the pack in her group as far as how well she's doing. There are a couple of girls who can still barely do cartwheels and decent handstands...so I thought it a bit odd that they were moving everyone up.
We got the official invite about a week or so ago by email. After looking at the costs and huge increase in hours (1.5/day to 3.5/day) we decided to keep Anna back on pre-team. She's so young still, at 5, so really...what's the rush, right? So as exciting as it felt to have Anna invited to Level 4, I felt that it was best for our family to leave her at pre-team.
So. Fast forward to this week. We were told that there would be no practice this week and Level 4 would start next week (assuming that everyone was moving up to Level 4). Another parent who I'm friendly with and who is also wanting to hold her daughter back had emailed the head coach asking if she could bring her daughter for pre-team practice since they weren't moving up. The coach said yes but it was likely she'd be the only one there....and she was. They apparently tried really really hard to persuade them to move their daughter up, but they held their ground. They asked one of Anna's coaches if they'd have practice Thursday (today) and were told yes, and that another child would be joining them who was in their group and not moving up. So she called me and told me that I should bring Anna.
So I show up with Anna and the lady at the front desk tells me that the two coaches called in and said they weren't coming in because there was no pre-team practice....and that there probably wouldn't be for the rest of the session. Whaaa?? And that was the start of a whole frustrating evening at the gym. They ended up letting our 3 girls practice with a different coach for an hour (not even the full hour and a half). The head coach and owner were out of town at a meet..so we couldn't even talk to them. Towards the end of the hour, the two coaches showed up (to teach other classes), saw we were there but didn't say a single word to us. We got the cold shoulder. It felt horrible. The three of us felt like outcasts for not wanting our daughters moved up.
I walked out of that gym feeling just horrible. These coaches have been with my daughter since September...I've talked to them numerous times..and we don't even get a "Hi, how's it going?" or even a "Why aren't you letting Anna move up?" Nothing.
It made me want to cry, to be honest. I love that gym. Everyone was always so nice...I guess until you go against their advice. It was just so frustrating.
So we're looking at other options now. I think she would have the same pre-team coaches if we stayed and I'm just not sure I want that. Ugh.
So so sorry this was so long. There's a lot more that I didn't include because it would have made it even longer. If you made it this far, I applaud and thank you.