Texasmomof3
Proud Parent
This weekend was our state meet for level 6.
Bit of background: dd scored out of level 5 in September with a solid 37 at the one level 5 meet she attended. She then immediately broke her hand and dislocated her thumb. She was in a hard cast for 8 weeks followed by a soft cast for two more weeks and wasn't allowed to resume anything other than light conditioning until after Thanksgiving. Level 6 began in January. During her down time, she grew three inches and gained 10 pounds. (She is in 7th grade.)
Not surprisingly, level 6 was a bit of a hot mess, as her vault and bars, especially, just didn't come together for her.
Then, to make matters worse, the week before state she had stomach flu. She didn't practice the four days before the meet and was still throwing up the night before state. She went to state anyway, because you don't just skip state when you aren't feeling well. Amazingly, she actually pulled a 36 at state, even with a fall on beam. And she won first place on floor at state. It was not her best floor routine of the season, but it was better than every other girl in her age division that day, so she got gold, gets to go to the state champion's banquet, etc.
She has been hearing sour grapes all weekend from girls in other age divisions where her score would not have been 1st. I have also heard veiled comments from other parents about how low her score was for a first. I'm not sure how to navigate this. I just want to let her feel happy about this success after how horrible the autumn was for her. She didn't pick her age group or do anything to try to game the system.
So how do you respond? Or how do you teach your child to respond to true but biting comments about age groups?
Bit of background: dd scored out of level 5 in September with a solid 37 at the one level 5 meet she attended. She then immediately broke her hand and dislocated her thumb. She was in a hard cast for 8 weeks followed by a soft cast for two more weeks and wasn't allowed to resume anything other than light conditioning until after Thanksgiving. Level 6 began in January. During her down time, she grew three inches and gained 10 pounds. (She is in 7th grade.)
Not surprisingly, level 6 was a bit of a hot mess, as her vault and bars, especially, just didn't come together for her.
Then, to make matters worse, the week before state she had stomach flu. She didn't practice the four days before the meet and was still throwing up the night before state. She went to state anyway, because you don't just skip state when you aren't feeling well. Amazingly, she actually pulled a 36 at state, even with a fall on beam. And she won first place on floor at state. It was not her best floor routine of the season, but it was better than every other girl in her age division that day, so she got gold, gets to go to the state champion's banquet, etc.
She has been hearing sour grapes all weekend from girls in other age divisions where her score would not have been 1st. I have also heard veiled comments from other parents about how low her score was for a first. I'm not sure how to navigate this. I just want to let her feel happy about this success after how horrible the autumn was for her. She didn't pick her age group or do anything to try to game the system.
So how do you respond? Or how do you teach your child to respond to true but biting comments about age groups?