Someone who's not my boss but above me at work said that to a bunch of coaches in conversation recently. It made me unexpectedly angry. I say that to myself, and take it as truth when friends/family say it to me, but hearing it from that person seemed just wrong. I responded "Hopefully as grateful as the gym is that I keep my certs updated and go to clinics."
Is that crazy? Does it seem overbearing and ominous to hear that from someone in a position of authority or is that me? It almost seemed downright rude. People who work hard deserve their job, to flourish and succeed should be expected. You don't create a compelling life for yourself or your family by hearing things that suggest you do what you do out of fear. Honestly hearing that made me feel a little dirty and disgusted.
Is that crazy? Does it seem overbearing and ominous to hear that from someone in a position of authority or is that me? It almost seemed downright rude. People who work hard deserve their job, to flourish and succeed should be expected. You don't create a compelling life for yourself or your family by hearing things that suggest you do what you do out of fear. Honestly hearing that made me feel a little dirty and disgusted.