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Proud Parent
For any parent who has a kid who hides injuries and also for any coaches with advice/opinion/experiences, etc.....
How do you counteract a kid who will hide being hurt because she doesn't want to miss training? If you have strategies/stories, please share!
I've talked and explained until I'm blue in the face! I can't seem to get across to my child that hiding injuries only makes things worse. So far, it's been little things...pulled muscles, a sprained finger. Nothing that I can actually visually determine and nothing that is heavily impacting her training. (Yeah, the finger was a problem on bars but even with that, she allowed her coach to think that she had lost her clear hip rather than admit her grip wasn't strong enough for those few days.)
My worry is that she is getting into a bad habit of hiding these small issues that will carry over to trying to hide bigger ones. I know that she will eventually get injured. I've told her time and time again that it's a matter of when, not if. Of course, part of being her mother means I have an IQ just below a turnip so obviously I don't know what I'm talking about.
She has really internalized her reputation at the gym as the "tough" one. It is becoming part of her self-identity and I think this is a dangerous road to go down. I like the trait in moderation but as with anything, when taken to extreme it is not a good thing.
How can I get her to understand that tough does NOT equal impervious and that injury does NOT equal weak?????
How do you counteract a kid who will hide being hurt because she doesn't want to miss training? If you have strategies/stories, please share!
I've talked and explained until I'm blue in the face! I can't seem to get across to my child that hiding injuries only makes things worse. So far, it's been little things...pulled muscles, a sprained finger. Nothing that I can actually visually determine and nothing that is heavily impacting her training. (Yeah, the finger was a problem on bars but even with that, she allowed her coach to think that she had lost her clear hip rather than admit her grip wasn't strong enough for those few days.)
My worry is that she is getting into a bad habit of hiding these small issues that will carry over to trying to hide bigger ones. I know that she will eventually get injured. I've told her time and time again that it's a matter of when, not if. Of course, part of being her mother means I have an IQ just below a turnip so obviously I don't know what I'm talking about.
She has really internalized her reputation at the gym as the "tough" one. It is becoming part of her self-identity and I think this is a dangerous road to go down. I like the trait in moderation but as with anything, when taken to extreme it is not a good thing.
How can I get her to understand that tough does NOT equal impervious and that injury does NOT equal weak?????