I would ask/talk to him but I can't even have a conversation with the coach. Everything you say can be used against you. He is unsupportive and a lot of times full out rude. He can be great too though. Some days he's fantastic but a lot of days leave my dd in tears. He's done things like this in the past and I don't like it. The teammates don't get along with dd and trust me, if I could I would leave the gym but I can't do that. I'm out of options. Thanks for your opinions and sorry for my mini vent.
Even for a long drive? I'm just thinking she's 15 and soon she can drive herself. Your coach sounds...odd, so I'm just worried she has made it this far and will burn out under this unpredictable and illogical regimen.