Gymnastics has been all fun and happiness up to this point. DD has been leaving the gym and saying she wants to quit or go back to her old class for the past 2 weeks because she's afraid to do one skill. She's afraid to do her handstand on the high beam by herself. I watch her stand there and stand there and stand there and she won't do it. Her coach will eventually come and spot her, but is really pushing her to do it by herself.
DD looks happy at practice and seems to have a blast. She leaves happy, but as soon as we get in the car she says she wants to quit. I tell her that's fine and tell her we'll go back and let her coach know. At that point she says, "No I don't really want to quit. I just want to go back to my old class so I don't have to do handstands on beam."
If I really believed she wanted to quit, we would quit. I do not believe this is the case. Going back to the old group is not an option in my mind. too many problems with that class.
How do I help her work through this?
She's in Level 4, but won't compete until Fall of 2011 because she just turned 5. I want to just tell her coach there's no rush. Spot her or let her go to the low beam until she's ready, but I don't want to be one of those parents telling the coach what to do. She can't spend all her time spotting one kid and the low beam isn't always available.
I hesitate, but I thought about asking for a private lesson so she could work on it. I don't care if she can do it, I just don't want her to be upset about it.
DD looks happy at practice and seems to have a blast. She leaves happy, but as soon as we get in the car she says she wants to quit. I tell her that's fine and tell her we'll go back and let her coach know. At that point she says, "No I don't really want to quit. I just want to go back to my old class so I don't have to do handstands on beam."
If I really believed she wanted to quit, we would quit. I do not believe this is the case. Going back to the old group is not an option in my mind. too many problems with that class.
How do I help her work through this?
She's in Level 4, but won't compete until Fall of 2011 because she just turned 5. I want to just tell her coach there's no rush. Spot her or let her go to the low beam until she's ready, but I don't want to be one of those parents telling the coach what to do. She can't spend all her time spotting one kid and the low beam isn't always available.
I hesitate, but I thought about asking for a private lesson so she could work on it. I don't care if she can do it, I just don't want her to be upset about it.