My husband and I are super frustrated with our daughter. She is in first grade and will be 7 in a couple of months, so she's still young. She is immature for her age behaviorally as far as being silly and having no impulse control. She has been diagnosed with ADHD and has a learning issue too despite being a bright kid. I found some helpful threads about ADHD through a search that were helpful.
We are at a new gym that we really like so far. She is talented. She learns super fast and is one of those kids constantly tumbling and upside down. The old gym spotted her at 3 as having loads of potential. She just does not have focus or self motivation. The practices are 3 hours long and maybe that's too long for her with the ADHD and immaturity. Last night, my husband was waiting outside to pick her up from practice. The girls were supposed to be working their splits, and the coach asked her three times to do them, and she just kept chattering and didn't do it. She was the only one. I'm embarrassed by this behavior. ADHD is no excuse to be rude. We can't correct her bc parents aren't allowed in the gym.
This is an ongoing issue from our other gym, and we have been battling this all year. I have a 4 year old meanwhile who would literally behave better if she were on team now. The 4 yr old is always trying to do more in her class and works so hard. I hate to compare, but it's so frustrating!
So my question is: should we pull her from gymnastics until she matures behaviorally? Gymnastics is a reward for her. Pull her from team and try again in a couple of years? Plan is to do level 3 next year. Put her back in developmental classes? I hate to keep rewarding this behavior by letting her go to gym. Thanks-
We are at a new gym that we really like so far. She is talented. She learns super fast and is one of those kids constantly tumbling and upside down. The old gym spotted her at 3 as having loads of potential. She just does not have focus or self motivation. The practices are 3 hours long and maybe that's too long for her with the ADHD and immaturity. Last night, my husband was waiting outside to pick her up from practice. The girls were supposed to be working their splits, and the coach asked her three times to do them, and she just kept chattering and didn't do it. She was the only one. I'm embarrassed by this behavior. ADHD is no excuse to be rude. We can't correct her bc parents aren't allowed in the gym.
This is an ongoing issue from our other gym, and we have been battling this all year. I have a 4 year old meanwhile who would literally behave better if she were on team now. The 4 yr old is always trying to do more in her class and works so hard. I hate to compare, but it's so frustrating!
So my question is: should we pull her from gymnastics until she matures behaviorally? Gymnastics is a reward for her. Pull her from team and try again in a couple of years? Plan is to do level 3 next year. Put her back in developmental classes? I hate to keep rewarding this behavior by letting her go to gym. Thanks-