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I wasn't sure wether I wanted to post this on here but I can't deal with it myself and haven't got anyone else to talk to and get advice from.
My youngest dd had a bit of a run in with her coach over a misunderstanding (I was called in to a meeting) - sorry don't want to go into too many details (I have told a few by PM) as it is long and don't want to write it all down again, my dd hadn't been naughty or anything like that just made a mistake on how to handle something.
We returned to the gym today to help empty the pit (shutdown week), dd's coach was there and this time was the first time we had seen her after the meeting (that ended well with no bad words and some understanding), the coach completely blanked me and my oldest dd today and even my youngest (who is coached by this person), she said hi and the coach didn't say anything back, we were in the gym 4 hours helping giving up put free time as that is what the girls wanted to do.
I left this gym feeling tired and deflated, not one person said thank you and left feeling hurt and puzzled over this coaches behaviour, dd still wants to do gym and be with this coach and I am feeling torn, I want dd to stay doing what she loves but don't want her to be treated like this (dd says the coach speaks to her during sessions), I don't know what to do, I feel like the coach has a grudge against us.
Maybe I am over reacting over this or maybe not, I won't be put out if you say I am worried over nothing as it will put my mind at ease, but I don't know what to do if the coach does have issues with us, I know the coach is only human and can have an off day but she was fine with everyone else but us.
My youngest dd had a bit of a run in with her coach over a misunderstanding (I was called in to a meeting) - sorry don't want to go into too many details (I have told a few by PM) as it is long and don't want to write it all down again, my dd hadn't been naughty or anything like that just made a mistake on how to handle something.
We returned to the gym today to help empty the pit (shutdown week), dd's coach was there and this time was the first time we had seen her after the meeting (that ended well with no bad words and some understanding), the coach completely blanked me and my oldest dd today and even my youngest (who is coached by this person), she said hi and the coach didn't say anything back, we were in the gym 4 hours helping giving up put free time as that is what the girls wanted to do.
I left this gym feeling tired and deflated, not one person said thank you and left feeling hurt and puzzled over this coaches behaviour, dd still wants to do gym and be with this coach and I am feeling torn, I want dd to stay doing what she loves but don't want her to be treated like this (dd says the coach speaks to her during sessions), I don't know what to do, I feel like the coach has a grudge against us.
Maybe I am over reacting over this or maybe not, I won't be put out if you say I am worried over nothing as it will put my mind at ease, but I don't know what to do if the coach does have issues with us, I know the coach is only human and can have an off day but she was fine with everyone else but us.