cbifoja
Proud Parent
Several of the older team moms (gymnasts were older, not the moms...well, maybe they were but that's not how I mean it) were sitting in the lobby this evening talking about a situation. I found myself listening to them because it was interesting to hear their discussion.
They were talking about a mom who has asked another mom to transport her child to gym several times a week. A couple of the moms were saying that this mom should offer to pay for gas occasionally while one of the moms was saying that the driving mother was heading to the gym anyway so it wasn't costing her any extra in gas.
In my mind, I feel like the moms who said the mom should cough up some gas money every now and then are right but for the life of me, I can't verbalize why I feel that way because the mom who said it isn't costing the driving mom anything is also correct.
So what are your all's thoughts on this subject? If you were the driving mom, would you resent never having the first mom offer to help with gas? If you were the "asking" the mom, would you feel obligated or that there was no reason to help with gas?
Like I said, I can't verbalize why I feel the way I do and ultimately, it doesn't really matter since I don't have a dog in this fight.
They were talking about a mom who has asked another mom to transport her child to gym several times a week. A couple of the moms were saying that this mom should offer to pay for gas occasionally while one of the moms was saying that the driving mother was heading to the gym anyway so it wasn't costing her any extra in gas.
In my mind, I feel like the moms who said the mom should cough up some gas money every now and then are right but for the life of me, I can't verbalize why I feel that way because the mom who said it isn't costing the driving mom anything is also correct.
So what are your all's thoughts on this subject? If you were the driving mom, would you resent never having the first mom offer to help with gas? If you were the "asking" the mom, would you feel obligated or that there was no reason to help with gas?
Like I said, I can't verbalize why I feel the way I do and ultimately, it doesn't really matter since I don't have a dog in this fight.