LuckyMommy
Proud Parent
Hi,
Here's our situation: DD1 is toward the older end of her L4 group. Has been slow to progress. Did okay in L3 last year and won a first place on an event at L3 state. Barely made it into L4 this year, but improved tremendously this season. Had our last meet and she missed State by 0.2 (we require 34.50). She is the only one on the team who didn't make it, and is embarassed and devastated. Having a hard time sleeping. We are talking positive, and she separately told me she is "not ready yet" to stop doing gymnastics or to move to Xcel. She's going to have a long road to L5 and wants to keep working for that goal. Gym is definitely interfering with her ability to have time to read for school, but so far her school performance is good. The only trick is that DD1 has very low self esteem already and tends to hide her feelings. This is a very hard sport for her, yet she stays at it. This is her only activity as she doesn't have time for anything else. There are no girls from her gym at her school (except DD2), which is nice, so those are two separate worlds.
Now for DD2, who is much younger but is on our gym's L3 team. DD2 just made State. We are supporting DD2 and being happy for her.
The next 2 weeks will be very hard for DD1 as practice time will be all about STATE. Any words of wisdom on how to help our girl are welcomed. I never did any sport as a child so don't know how this feels. We don't care if she stays in gymnastics or not, so it's not about pushing her, just her emotional well-being. Figure we'll let her stay on Team till she hits her own wall of skill level versus effort (probably pretty soon, not sure if she'll get to L5 or repeat L4). Excel would be a great alternative, so hoping she'll go that way at some point.
Thanks,
LuckyMommy
Here's our situation: DD1 is toward the older end of her L4 group. Has been slow to progress. Did okay in L3 last year and won a first place on an event at L3 state. Barely made it into L4 this year, but improved tremendously this season. Had our last meet and she missed State by 0.2 (we require 34.50). She is the only one on the team who didn't make it, and is embarassed and devastated. Having a hard time sleeping. We are talking positive, and she separately told me she is "not ready yet" to stop doing gymnastics or to move to Xcel. She's going to have a long road to L5 and wants to keep working for that goal. Gym is definitely interfering with her ability to have time to read for school, but so far her school performance is good. The only trick is that DD1 has very low self esteem already and tends to hide her feelings. This is a very hard sport for her, yet she stays at it. This is her only activity as she doesn't have time for anything else. There are no girls from her gym at her school (except DD2), which is nice, so those are two separate worlds.
Now for DD2, who is much younger but is on our gym's L3 team. DD2 just made State. We are supporting DD2 and being happy for her.
The next 2 weeks will be very hard for DD1 as practice time will be all about STATE. Any words of wisdom on how to help our girl are welcomed. I never did any sport as a child so don't know how this feels. We don't care if she stays in gymnastics or not, so it's not about pushing her, just her emotional well-being. Figure we'll let her stay on Team till she hits her own wall of skill level versus effort (probably pretty soon, not sure if she'll get to L5 or repeat L4). Excel would be a great alternative, so hoping she'll go that way at some point.
Thanks,
LuckyMommy