my4buffaloes
Proud Parent
Dd has been doing gymnastics since she was 3. Injuries kept her out of the gym the past year. Coming back is VERY hard - especially coming back to upper level optionals. At what point do you just give up and move on?
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She'll tell you when, without words before she actually says it aloud.
I admire your daughter's valiant effort to try to recover from her injuries and the noble path she took in giving it all up.They know when the time is right...my youngest, who tore her ACL shortly after she committed to a school to compete in college, tried to battle back from it....we did PT three times a week FOREVER, she had 4 surgeries in the same knee and she conditioned and tried to make it back but last fall, on one of our long drives to gym, she said " would you be mad if I gave up my full ride for gymnastics? I'd like to apply to other schools because my knee just isn't the same" ...I sat there stunned but in a nutshell, that was it....and it was over. We took her back to her ortho and he concurred with her assessment and it turned out that she needed 2 more surgeries after that!
Her college coach never took the scholarship away and was willing to let her come and try but she felt NCAA was way too labor intensive to maybe have a shot at one event in a line up....and she felt that she wasn't the gymnast the coach had recruited and that the coach deserved to have someone who was 100% , and she relinquished her scholarship...
I talked to my oldest as this was all going down and she said " mum, she's been feeling like this for the past few months, she'll be ok"...and she is. She's moved on and had a great Sr year, got a job, works out at a regular gym gym and is headed to college in the fall with no regrets.....so if it's time, it's time....
Thank you. This is an ongoing conversation. Lots of tears. Feeling a loyalty to stay when she is not there. When she is there feeling like her body can't handle this anymore. I feel the same way. It is her decision, we go over the pros and cons daily. Trying to give it to the end of summer. I don't know if we will make it.
Yes kids don't need all their eggs in one basket. For anything.I would quietly work at giving her a broader perspective- try and find another activity she can enjoy at the same time as she's struggling with her gymnastics- this way she'll have something that's giving her joy and more if a platform to be able to look at her gym.
I've known several elite track gymies who transferred very successfully into sports aerobics.
Sending you heaps of virtual hugs - when we held our newborn babies as they stayed awake at night & then struggled through the preschool years we thought the rough patches were pretty much done lol so feeling for you and your Dd.