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Ok I am wondering how much I should preach to DD or just let her coaches handle it. And if I should talk to one of her coaches. Because DD who is 7 almost 8 in May(started at age 6) is basically advanced beginner in gymnastics and really loves it (she has asked if she could go everyday) but our pocket book can only handle so much. She also has ADD has a hard time on paying attention.
She goes 3 x a week for a total of 3.5 hours a week for rec classes. Mons she goes to a rec class at a local gym for an hour that has a team (that DD wants to join someday when she is ready.) she also goes to this same gym on Fri's for 30 min of private lessons with coach Susie and then she goes to a community gymnastics class run by a well known local gymnastics coach John for 2 hours on Wednesday's.
she has been with with coach John the longest and he has noticed that she has improved greatly with her skills this yr and moved her up to the older girls group (these 3 girls are on his team and they are ages 11/12 and its extra practice time for them) so yesterday DD was 4th in line so she could watch what the big girls are doing and copy them. she wasn't paying attention and did the wrong skill and HC yelled at her and then later yelled at her for walking away while he is talking to her. I have told her many many times about watching the kids in front of her so she knows what to do when its her turn and I have told her many times to look ppl in the eye when they are talking to her. So even though it was hard for me to see her get in trouble, I also was thinking.. finally! he said something to her, so maybe now she will listen to him because she wasn't listening too me. I point to her to look at her coach when she turned towards me and he said Don't look at her, shes not the coach and I am not sure how to take that. but after class I went over to him and thanked him for talking to her and that maybe now she will listen!
He isn't much of a talker unless your his favorite and that doesn't bother me, it just makes it hard for me to feel comfortable to talk to him, he is a funny coach with the lil ones, but for the older ones he is about going threw everything fast fast fast. I'm apprehensive towards him and he can be a bit intimidating, its his gruff personality and I'm not sure how to take him. but yesterday he started what was new to me and DD. telling them to do a Brittany and my DD hadn't a clue what he was talking about and you could tell he was aggravated with her, and took it as she wasn't listening, but she was that time =), she just doesn't know or understand what it is she is suppose to do and her just watching the big girls ahead of her do it ,(and fast I might add) was not enough for her to understand what to do this time. Do I say something like she doesn't understand or just let it work its self out? last time this happened is when I got a private coach for her and that has helped soooo much. For her 2nd hour he put her back with the toddlers to teach her a lesson I guess. I used it as a teaching lesson that if she wants to join the team some day she has to always pay attention, so she is safe. she was not happy about being with the lil ones so maybe now she will remember! So do I keep on her? Do I explain to her HC that DD has ADD? I don't want him to think I am giving an excuse but it is a fact and does hinder her in her ability to focus and to concentrate like her peers and it maybe why she is immature for her age. Your insight is welcomed. Thanks a bunch!
She goes 3 x a week for a total of 3.5 hours a week for rec classes. Mons she goes to a rec class at a local gym for an hour that has a team (that DD wants to join someday when she is ready.) she also goes to this same gym on Fri's for 30 min of private lessons with coach Susie and then she goes to a community gymnastics class run by a well known local gymnastics coach John for 2 hours on Wednesday's.
she has been with with coach John the longest and he has noticed that she has improved greatly with her skills this yr and moved her up to the older girls group (these 3 girls are on his team and they are ages 11/12 and its extra practice time for them) so yesterday DD was 4th in line so she could watch what the big girls are doing and copy them. she wasn't paying attention and did the wrong skill and HC yelled at her and then later yelled at her for walking away while he is talking to her. I have told her many many times about watching the kids in front of her so she knows what to do when its her turn and I have told her many times to look ppl in the eye when they are talking to her. So even though it was hard for me to see her get in trouble, I also was thinking.. finally! he said something to her, so maybe now she will listen to him because she wasn't listening too me. I point to her to look at her coach when she turned towards me and he said Don't look at her, shes not the coach and I am not sure how to take that. but after class I went over to him and thanked him for talking to her and that maybe now she will listen!
He isn't much of a talker unless your his favorite and that doesn't bother me, it just makes it hard for me to feel comfortable to talk to him, he is a funny coach with the lil ones, but for the older ones he is about going threw everything fast fast fast. I'm apprehensive towards him and he can be a bit intimidating, its his gruff personality and I'm not sure how to take him. but yesterday he started what was new to me and DD. telling them to do a Brittany and my DD hadn't a clue what he was talking about and you could tell he was aggravated with her, and took it as she wasn't listening, but she was that time =), she just doesn't know or understand what it is she is suppose to do and her just watching the big girls ahead of her do it ,(and fast I might add) was not enough for her to understand what to do this time. Do I say something like she doesn't understand or just let it work its self out? last time this happened is when I got a private coach for her and that has helped soooo much. For her 2nd hour he put her back with the toddlers to teach her a lesson I guess. I used it as a teaching lesson that if she wants to join the team some day she has to always pay attention, so she is safe. she was not happy about being with the lil ones so maybe now she will remember! So do I keep on her? Do I explain to her HC that DD has ADD? I don't want him to think I am giving an excuse but it is a fact and does hinder her in her ability to focus and to concentrate like her peers and it maybe why she is immature for her age. Your insight is welcomed. Thanks a bunch!