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lilgymmie7
I am sure you have all heard the saying, "It takes a village to raise a child." Well my post and recent situation has me questioning how in the world adults can take something away from a child without it bothering them one iota. As you may all know, I am a teacher. And I swear, it is times like these that cause me to truly sympathize with my students, their parents, and people in general. I tend to reflect on my behavior when things hit home.
My little DD is a truly hard worker in and out of school and is such a kind hearted child most importantly. This post isn't even referring to anything concerning her gymnastics whatsoever. Early this year, I posted about stressing DD out by expecting too much from her ouside of the gym. This little girl wants to do so much academically and so I knew I had to have her tested for the gifted schools in our area. Well, that same quarter she began to get bored with school and her reading grade slipped down to a C. She worked hard to bring it back up getting A's and 100's but her grade in the end was one point away from a B and well that kept her off the honor roll for that quarter. She managed honor roll with all A's the other three quarters however. Needless to say, I knew she wouldn't get an award for honor roll because they award the students for obtaining HR status all 4 quarters. I am okay with that.
Little DD had managed the Citzenship award throughout Kindergarten and now in the first grade for the first 3 quarters. However today, her name was not called at the awards assembly. I never received a call from the school about DD's behavior. Her weekly conduct folder has received stickers for good behavior and work ethic and when I talk to her teacher she has always said how great DD is. I just don't get what could have kept DD of the 'medal stand'....
I do know however that my kids' school does not like to follow the rules and I had to contact our board because they neglected to follow the modifications and accomadations on my DS IEP. In fact I have a 'sit-down' meeting with the Principal, school counselor, social worker, and the AMP administrative officer tomorrow in order to iron everything out. Could it be that the Principal is upset at the lengths I have gone that my child is the scapegoat?
I am a bit 'fuming' and just wanted to post rather than burst. Perhaps others have gone through something similar and may offer advice that I can mull over to help me see the 'other side'. I have contacted the school, DD's teacher, to ask what happened. I really hate to think that adults in a critical role could be so vindictive. The principal has the last say-so at the school as to who receives what by way of awards at the school and she is the one who neglected my son's IEP two weeks ago.
It is tough raising children to be good people when in this world we have adults who do not see how they can impact our children. DD volunteered on her way home that her teacher pulled her out of class to tell her that her name should have been called and hence gave her a little prize before she left school. That sealed it for me that something is up.
My little DD is a truly hard worker in and out of school and is such a kind hearted child most importantly. This post isn't even referring to anything concerning her gymnastics whatsoever. Early this year, I posted about stressing DD out by expecting too much from her ouside of the gym. This little girl wants to do so much academically and so I knew I had to have her tested for the gifted schools in our area. Well, that same quarter she began to get bored with school and her reading grade slipped down to a C. She worked hard to bring it back up getting A's and 100's but her grade in the end was one point away from a B and well that kept her off the honor roll for that quarter. She managed honor roll with all A's the other three quarters however. Needless to say, I knew she wouldn't get an award for honor roll because they award the students for obtaining HR status all 4 quarters. I am okay with that.
Little DD had managed the Citzenship award throughout Kindergarten and now in the first grade for the first 3 quarters. However today, her name was not called at the awards assembly. I never received a call from the school about DD's behavior. Her weekly conduct folder has received stickers for good behavior and work ethic and when I talk to her teacher she has always said how great DD is. I just don't get what could have kept DD of the 'medal stand'....
I do know however that my kids' school does not like to follow the rules and I had to contact our board because they neglected to follow the modifications and accomadations on my DS IEP. In fact I have a 'sit-down' meeting with the Principal, school counselor, social worker, and the AMP administrative officer tomorrow in order to iron everything out. Could it be that the Principal is upset at the lengths I have gone that my child is the scapegoat?
I am a bit 'fuming' and just wanted to post rather than burst. Perhaps others have gone through something similar and may offer advice that I can mull over to help me see the 'other side'. I have contacted the school, DD's teacher, to ask what happened. I really hate to think that adults in a critical role could be so vindictive. The principal has the last say-so at the school as to who receives what by way of awards at the school and she is the one who neglected my son's IEP two weeks ago.
It is tough raising children to be good people when in this world we have adults who do not see how they can impact our children. DD volunteered on her way home that her teacher pulled her out of class to tell her that her name should have been called and hence gave her a little prize before she left school. That sealed it for me that something is up.