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My dd (7) is making progress in her group and is doing well as far as I know. There is one small niggling issue that dd is having that keeps cropping up every so often. Dd told me that she is having issues's on the strap bar, according to dd the coach has been telling her off for not doing her swings correctly saying dd is not listening and threatening to not let her go on the bars if she doesn't do it right, dd says she is listening and is trying to do what the coach says but can't quite get it. I have asked dd if she can handle this issue and let the coach know she is trying but doesn't quite understand how to apply the correction and doesn't feel like she can ask the coach for help.
Dd is younger then her team mates and only in year 2 (first grade in the USA) and doesn't always know how to deal with things like her older team mates could, she told me that she is frightened that she will get kicked out of the group, Her coach isn't horrible but is young and I think she sometimes forgets that dd is so young (I hope that is the reason), dd said no one else has got threatened like she has.
Dd is not as emotionally mature as some girls can be at the age of 7 and can get easily upset but tries to hide it.
I am quite happy for the coach to tell dd off in the correct way if needed and for the coach to give her corrections but not to bully or threaten my dd when it might not be her fault.
I have tried to get dd to try and sort this out but I don't think she can handle this on her own yet, I have offered to have a chat with the coach with dd present to find out what has been said and if she has threatened dd (I hope not and that dd has gotten the wrong end if the stick) and I will get her to tell the coach her views. Do you think I should request to speak to the coach or just leave it?
Dd is younger then her team mates and only in year 2 (first grade in the USA) and doesn't always know how to deal with things like her older team mates could, she told me that she is frightened that she will get kicked out of the group, Her coach isn't horrible but is young and I think she sometimes forgets that dd is so young (I hope that is the reason), dd said no one else has got threatened like she has.
Dd is not as emotionally mature as some girls can be at the age of 7 and can get easily upset but tries to hide it.
I am quite happy for the coach to tell dd off in the correct way if needed and for the coach to give her corrections but not to bully or threaten my dd when it might not be her fault.
I have tried to get dd to try and sort this out but I don't think she can handle this on her own yet, I have offered to have a chat with the coach with dd present to find out what has been said and if she has threatened dd (I hope not and that dd has gotten the wrong end if the stick) and I will get her to tell the coach her views. Do you think I should request to speak to the coach or just leave it?