My dd had her 1st meet this past weekend. She actually surprised us with her scores considering how her practices were. They had a mock meet, and her scores were hovering between 7 and 8s. At the actual meet they were mid 8s and high nines. She put her game face on and really did an exceptional meet. Heres the thing though, she got really upset that she didnt do as well. I thought that outrageous. A 9.7 on vault? And that was bad? What? I understand she is competitive, and thats great, but what can I say to her to keep her from beating herself up about her skills. How do I help her if she doesnt score well next time? She viewed the video and damned herself at every mistake. I'm at a loss.