Now usually I am the mom who does not believe in getting involved in the girls catiness. My daughter who is 9 practices with girls who are between the ages of 8-11, they have a small group who they practice with, the girls fight one minute then are best friends the next so I usually find it best to stay out of it.
So my daughter comes home last week is very exciting because a new girl joined the team who is her age and will be competing with her.
Then she later mentions that one of the girls was making mean comments about the new girl to one of her teammates. The next day I asked my daughter about the new girl and she was not at practice(I am not sure why the week she started was their last week of summer practice so it maybe that she will start regular practice with her group in the fall). Then one of the older girls who I drive says she probally quit since they were so mean to her. Now my daughter says she is pretty sure the new girl heard the comments and my daughter yelled at the girl making the comments then took the new girl aside and said don't let it bother you they do that to everybody, she will not be competing with us. Apparently the coaches were on the other side of the gym when this was going on so they do not know.
I am hoping that they did not scare the new girl away since my daughter was so happy to have her join them since one of her other friend just left.
I do not know if I should say something to the coaches(the head coach would be really mad but they would be told that this is not acceptable behavior). The other problem is the girl making the comments is also a friend of my daughters. I quess my options are to wait and let it die down, I could also say something to the girls mother I think she would correct her daughter. I am just hoping that the girls returns when they start fall practice. I am also angry since the girl making the comments is the next level so she will not even be competeing with the new girl just practicing with her. In my daughters level she has only one other girl who she competes with so the new girl will make 3.
So my daughter comes home last week is very exciting because a new girl joined the team who is her age and will be competing with her.
Then she later mentions that one of the girls was making mean comments about the new girl to one of her teammates. The next day I asked my daughter about the new girl and she was not at practice(I am not sure why the week she started was their last week of summer practice so it maybe that she will start regular practice with her group in the fall). Then one of the older girls who I drive says she probally quit since they were so mean to her. Now my daughter says she is pretty sure the new girl heard the comments and my daughter yelled at the girl making the comments then took the new girl aside and said don't let it bother you they do that to everybody, she will not be competing with us. Apparently the coaches were on the other side of the gym when this was going on so they do not know.
I am hoping that they did not scare the new girl away since my daughter was so happy to have her join them since one of her other friend just left.
I do not know if I should say something to the coaches(the head coach would be really mad but they would be told that this is not acceptable behavior). The other problem is the girl making the comments is also a friend of my daughters. I quess my options are to wait and let it die down, I could also say something to the girls mother I think she would correct her daughter. I am just hoping that the girls returns when they start fall practice. I am also angry since the girl making the comments is the next level so she will not even be competeing with the new girl just practicing with her. In my daughters level she has only one other girl who she competes with so the new girl will make 3.