gymmommy123
Proud Parent
My little dd (age 7) has been at a new gym since December, on lvl 3 team. Overall we've been happy with how she's progressing, they challenge her and her skills have been progressing. I like the owner and the coaches seem reasonably good. However, I'm having concerns with how the girls are getting along. My dd has never had ANY problems with kids anywhere else, not on other teams or at school, or at any activity, camp, etc... Yet since we moved to this gym, I swear there are more nights of tears because of the fighting with the other KIDS. I know part of the problem is that she's the youngest on the team, by several years. DD is in 1st grade, she's working out primarily with girls grades 3-5, and older, and there isn't a single girl her age on the entire team. She also goes to a sort of zero tolerance charter school that is VERY strict about the kids treating each other well, so she hasn't had to deal with that very much at school. I am so frustrated hearing about how her "BFF" hates her today, or this girl was mean, or that girl bossed her around... AAAAHHH! It is so frustrating! I don't stay at practices and watch, but I can tell almost instantly when I walk in at the end of the night if she and her "BFF" are friends that day, and it never fails she'll get in the car and the tears start because she doesn't know WHY this one was mean or that one won't talk to her. One night a few of us parents talked with the girls about being a team, getting along, etc., and I thought that it was better, but now, we're back to the bickering again. Is this just the way it is with girls when they're older? I tell her to just focus on gymnastics, but I know she wants the other kids to be her friends. I'm sort of at a loss with what to tell her.