leotardmakermum
Proud Parent
Something I've been wondering about: where is the line between being friendly with a coach, and being too friendly?
Here's the scenario.
Yesterday we were leaving a training venue. Head coach walks past the back of our car as I was packing things into it, and says bye to my daughter (called her by name), but he said nothing to me. Sure, he may not remember my name on the spot, but it did seem just a tad rude. I thought, "Do I say goodbye to him or not?" It might seem like I was being overly friendly, or it might seem that I was pointing out his rudeness in ignoring me. I said nothing, but it really seemed wrong and uncomfortable to not say anything.
Shortly afterwards my daughter's squad coach walked past and said goodbye to both of us, to which I replied in kind. It was natural, and comfortable.
Where is the line between being friendly, and for want of a better word, being "sucky"? ie sucking up to the coach, brown-nosing etc - I don't know how much of my phrasing is idiomatic Australian slang!
I don't want to be best friends with the coaches at all - given that practically the only thing we have in common is my daughter and her gymnastics - that would just be weird. I want to just be naturally friendly with them, without me or them feeling that the only reason I am doing it is because I want favouritism for my daughter. I don't want favouritism - I just want to be normally friendly!
Here's the scenario.
Yesterday we were leaving a training venue. Head coach walks past the back of our car as I was packing things into it, and says bye to my daughter (called her by name), but he said nothing to me. Sure, he may not remember my name on the spot, but it did seem just a tad rude. I thought, "Do I say goodbye to him or not?" It might seem like I was being overly friendly, or it might seem that I was pointing out his rudeness in ignoring me. I said nothing, but it really seemed wrong and uncomfortable to not say anything.
Shortly afterwards my daughter's squad coach walked past and said goodbye to both of us, to which I replied in kind. It was natural, and comfortable.
Where is the line between being friendly, and for want of a better word, being "sucky"? ie sucking up to the coach, brown-nosing etc - I don't know how much of my phrasing is idiomatic Australian slang!
I don't want to be best friends with the coaches at all - given that practically the only thing we have in common is my daughter and her gymnastics - that would just be weird. I want to just be naturally friendly with them, without me or them feeling that the only reason I am doing it is because I want favouritism for my daughter. I don't want favouritism - I just want to be normally friendly!