NotAGymMom
Proud Parent
My dd (just turned 4) is very cautious and has some "fears" but is getting better in each class and her fears do not affect her participation. She does not want to be "scared" but needs to get used to things like jumping off the tall beam without help for example... she's really nervous doing turns on the bars (but is willing to try which is more than I ever was willing to do!)
She currently goes 1 hour a week on Wednesday at a USA Gymnastics gym. They are adding another pre-k class at our gym... they currently offer a class on Wednesdays and Saturdays. We can't do Saturdays because of swim lessons through the end of the year. (swim lessons are non-negotiable in our house) I just found out today that they opened up another class for Pre-K on Thursdays and we're available at that time.
I talked to her coach about her fears and not wanting her to force her into a sport that maybe she just wouldn't excel in (really no way to know at 4 though, right?). He thought she was just fine giving we've only been at it a few weeks and that eventually she would get over some of her relunctance. She is picking up tumbling skills pretty well but is still pretty uncoordinated. They do tumbling and jumping stations, beam, the long trampoline and bar work stations. Its definitely more of a "grooming" class then a fun and games class.
So, my question, (for experienced moms) do you think that going twice a week will help her get over her fears faster? She loves gymnastics, never cries and is very willing to try everything... just SUPER cautious. She wishes she could go more than once a week (when we go to karate she wants to go to gymnastics instead) Instead of two consecutive days should I wait until she I can spread it out more? We'll be able to do Saturdays again in January. At this age is it more time passed then it is actual hours in the gym? (like will it take a few months to get over that regardless if she's in the gym once or twice a week)
My niece is a competitive gymnast and my daughter wanted to take gymnastics because of that so I figured we would give her that opportunity - otherwise I would never have thought to put her in the sport given her "fears" for lack of better term. I will say as far as fears go, she is ALWAYS willing to try with help - just super nervous about it. I've never seen her walk away from a challenge.
I have the same personality as her growing up and was always afraid of everything. I regret that I wasn't pushed more to get over my fear of dogs, swimming, and not pushed more athletically. I don't fault my parents for it, but I really think it set me up for not being as healthy/fit as an adult. I also don't want to be "that mom" pushing her too hard or not encouraging her to try new things because I knew she was "afraid"
Again - she loves gymnastics ... this is something she asked for and looks forward to each week - not one tear has been shed and she's never walked out of class which I think is huge... there are definitely more advanced kids in her class her although physically ready still melt down or act up in class.
She currently goes 1 hour a week on Wednesday at a USA Gymnastics gym. They are adding another pre-k class at our gym... they currently offer a class on Wednesdays and Saturdays. We can't do Saturdays because of swim lessons through the end of the year. (swim lessons are non-negotiable in our house) I just found out today that they opened up another class for Pre-K on Thursdays and we're available at that time.
I talked to her coach about her fears and not wanting her to force her into a sport that maybe she just wouldn't excel in (really no way to know at 4 though, right?). He thought she was just fine giving we've only been at it a few weeks and that eventually she would get over some of her relunctance. She is picking up tumbling skills pretty well but is still pretty uncoordinated. They do tumbling and jumping stations, beam, the long trampoline and bar work stations. Its definitely more of a "grooming" class then a fun and games class.
So, my question, (for experienced moms) do you think that going twice a week will help her get over her fears faster? She loves gymnastics, never cries and is very willing to try everything... just SUPER cautious. She wishes she could go more than once a week (when we go to karate she wants to go to gymnastics instead) Instead of two consecutive days should I wait until she I can spread it out more? We'll be able to do Saturdays again in January. At this age is it more time passed then it is actual hours in the gym? (like will it take a few months to get over that regardless if she's in the gym once or twice a week)
My niece is a competitive gymnast and my daughter wanted to take gymnastics because of that so I figured we would give her that opportunity - otherwise I would never have thought to put her in the sport given her "fears" for lack of better term. I will say as far as fears go, she is ALWAYS willing to try with help - just super nervous about it. I've never seen her walk away from a challenge.
I have the same personality as her growing up and was always afraid of everything. I regret that I wasn't pushed more to get over my fear of dogs, swimming, and not pushed more athletically. I don't fault my parents for it, but I really think it set me up for not being as healthy/fit as an adult. I also don't want to be "that mom" pushing her too hard or not encouraging her to try new things because I knew she was "afraid"
Again - she loves gymnastics ... this is something she asked for and looks forward to each week - not one tear has been shed and she's never walked out of class which I think is huge... there are definitely more advanced kids in her class her although physically ready still melt down or act up in class.