momof2gymmies
Proud Parent
I need some help with YDD. She is 10, almost 11. She is on her third year of team. She says she likes it. I have asked her many, many times if she wants to quit, and always get an no for the answer. She is usually happy to go to practice. She killed it last year - high 38s at every meet. This year she is averaging 35s, and her routines are almost the same. She has lost all of her tightness. She picks skills up in seconds, but doesn't work to clean them up. She is the kid who got her kip the first time she tried, and never lost it. On an almost weekly basis the coach calls me into her office to talk about DD's "appalling lack of effort". DD is not disrespectful while at practice, does not fool around, just doesn't try, if that makes any sense. She is not doing well at meets this year, yet she is not doing horrible either. She has won beam at every meet, and has come in anywhere between 1st and 4th on bars. Floor is ok, just loose, and vault is a hot mess, but she just shrugs and happily skips out of the meet. Her coaches have gone into boot camp mode with her - every bent arm or leg equals a certain number of sit ups after practice. Last night she had to stay and do 199. She was happy with it, her coaches not so much.
I am stuck with what to do with her. Do I force her to quit at the end of the season? I have told her that if I get one more remark about effort she is done. Whatever I do with her, I want her to know it is her effort I am upset over, and not her scores or placements. I don't care if she wins, but I do feel she should be working 100% of the time for the money we are spending and the time required.
I am stuck with what to do with her. Do I force her to quit at the end of the season? I have told her that if I get one more remark about effort she is done. Whatever I do with her, I want her to know it is her effort I am upset over, and not her scores or placements. I don't care if she wins, but I do feel she should be working 100% of the time for the money we are spending and the time required.