MILgymFAM
Proud Parent
If she was the only optional not invited, I think it's not nice. Exclusion can be really, really hurtful. One of the girls in my DDs group had a birthday sleepover last weekend and didn't invite my DD (not an age thing, just because she doesn't like her). It was one thing to not be invited- my DD didn't mind (who wants to go where they are not wanted), but everyone talking about it on break is what made her feel left out. She kinda just sat alone and ate her snack. Everything is just so cliquey with girls. It hurts my head and my heart.Ironically tonight invitations were given out for one of the optionals birthday...she is turning 14...my dd was the only optional not invited. She wasn't upset about it though, she didn't want to see some scary movie or talk about boys...and we will still get her a present. I do think there are limits sometimes. But it wasn't meanest excluding her, the girl just didn't put her in her circle of friends.