Eleven sol
Proud Parent
Do you ever hesitate to let your kid get involved too deeply in sports? I ended up turning down division 1 college scholarships for track/cross-country because after 7 years the coaches had beaten out the love of the sport for me. I was fortunate enough to get a academic scholarship but I gave up running entirely for several years. It took many years for me to go back to it and remember why I loved it. And I DO still love it.
Looking back it was fun to excel at something but the main thing is to be able to exercise your whole life and still love it. I have been and will continue to be very cautious about my kids involvement in gymnastics/sports in general. I really am aware of coaches too, and I don't mean if they are effectively using time or whatever but how kind and fun they are. Often I hear from very competitive parents who were never at that high level themselves. I always think when they are talking, "be careful what you wish for." In my experience as an athlete the high achievers really are extremely self-motivated and don't need any additional pressure anyway.
Looking back it was fun to excel at something but the main thing is to be able to exercise your whole life and still love it. I have been and will continue to be very cautious about my kids involvement in gymnastics/sports in general. I really am aware of coaches too, and I don't mean if they are effectively using time or whatever but how kind and fun they are. Often I hear from very competitive parents who were never at that high level themselves. I always think when they are talking, "be careful what you wish for." In my experience as an athlete the high achievers really are extremely self-motivated and don't need any additional pressure anyway.