momof2gymmies
Proud Parent
I am so frustrated with DD, and have so far managed to keep my mouth shut, but the only reason I could tonight is because she went home with a team mate for a sleepover, and I didn't have a chance to talk to her. I went to gym to get YDD. ODD was still in practice, and I watched her floor routine.
She competed a robhsbt all last year. It was beautiful. She had no problems doing it. In September she just stopped. She will do it if her coach stands on the floor. Doesn't need to be next to her. Doesn't need to touch her. Just needs to stand on the floor. Her coach says she is done standing on the floor, and refuses to do it. So DD won't even attempt the tuck. She has gone back to doing a robhsbhs. Since she is xcel silver she does not have to compete it, and it seems like she is using the fact that she doesn't have to as a crutch. There is no urgent need for her to get it. Except for the fact that our gym requires the silvers to compete it.
I know it is a fear issue. I know that she can't control it. I also know that her coaches are frustrated with her, and they have a meet in 3 weeks. If she can't do it by Monday she won't be competing. She is not going to be able to do it on Monday b/c she refused to even try it tonight. But, even knowing that, I am frustrated with her and really wish that she could get it together. If she doesn't compete she is going to be a pain in the neck.
Any advice for getting her over her fear?
She competed a robhsbt all last year. It was beautiful. She had no problems doing it. In September she just stopped. She will do it if her coach stands on the floor. Doesn't need to be next to her. Doesn't need to touch her. Just needs to stand on the floor. Her coach says she is done standing on the floor, and refuses to do it. So DD won't even attempt the tuck. She has gone back to doing a robhsbhs. Since she is xcel silver she does not have to compete it, and it seems like she is using the fact that she doesn't have to as a crutch. There is no urgent need for her to get it. Except for the fact that our gym requires the silvers to compete it.
I know it is a fear issue. I know that she can't control it. I also know that her coaches are frustrated with her, and they have a meet in 3 weeks. If she can't do it by Monday she won't be competing. She is not going to be able to do it on Monday b/c she refused to even try it tonight. But, even knowing that, I am frustrated with her and really wish that she could get it together. If she doesn't compete she is going to be a pain in the neck.
Any advice for getting her over her fear?