Ginger
Proud Parent
Our first meet of the season – and the very first L4 meet for my girls (they both competed L3 last season) is tomorrow. Last night, it was their last before-meet practice, and all seemed to go well. My YDD has a lot of issues with her form, and as I caught the end of the practice, I was very surprised how well she looked on beam. Never saw her so tight and focused before.
Then, on the way home my YDD started crying and said the coach told her (after the practice) that she wouldn’t be allowed to do the first meet (which is tomorrow). My husband called the gym immediately (it was quite late – around 9pm), the office manager (who is in charge of meet fees etc..) didn’t know anything about my daughter being scratched off meet, but the coach was still there and she confirmed what my daughter said.
I wouldn’t have problem with missing the first meet, IF we were informed about it by someone in charge and IF we were given a valid reason. The coach claimed she can’t let my DD compete because she would score in 3s. I know a bit about gymnastics/scoring and I know my daughter has all the skills, she is able to perform them all consistently and safely, and she knows the routines. Her main deductions would be on form, so I guess it would be probably somewhere in 7s or low 8s. We’re not one of the high-scoring gyms and last season, the girls (both L3 and L4) were allowed to compete even with inconsistent or missing skills.
Is this something that normally happens? Coach (or owner, or office manager, or whoever is in charge) not telling the parents about scratching meet, and expecting a little girl (she is 8) to deliver the message? If I know beforehand, I could guide my little girl during all the disappointment, but we were caught off guard and it was very rough night for all of us, even my ODD was upset and my YDD couldn’t stop crying even in the morning.
I am so upset. Am I crazy or overreacting if I think this isn’t right?
Then, on the way home my YDD started crying and said the coach told her (after the practice) that she wouldn’t be allowed to do the first meet (which is tomorrow). My husband called the gym immediately (it was quite late – around 9pm), the office manager (who is in charge of meet fees etc..) didn’t know anything about my daughter being scratched off meet, but the coach was still there and she confirmed what my daughter said.
I wouldn’t have problem with missing the first meet, IF we were informed about it by someone in charge and IF we were given a valid reason. The coach claimed she can’t let my DD compete because she would score in 3s. I know a bit about gymnastics/scoring and I know my daughter has all the skills, she is able to perform them all consistently and safely, and she knows the routines. Her main deductions would be on form, so I guess it would be probably somewhere in 7s or low 8s. We’re not one of the high-scoring gyms and last season, the girls (both L3 and L4) were allowed to compete even with inconsistent or missing skills.
Is this something that normally happens? Coach (or owner, or office manager, or whoever is in charge) not telling the parents about scratching meet, and expecting a little girl (she is 8) to deliver the message? If I know beforehand, I could guide my little girl during all the disappointment, but we were caught off guard and it was very rough night for all of us, even my ODD was upset and my YDD couldn’t stop crying even in the morning.
I am so upset. Am I crazy or overreacting if I think this isn’t right?