gymmommy123
Proud Parent
My DD has been at a new gym for a few months now. There are quite a few good aspects, and then several things I'm really unhappy with. We moved, so she would be at a competitive gym, that would push her, and move her along appropriately... or so I thought. We thought it was great that the gym "won" a lot, lots of championships, lots of medals, a decent sized team up through level 10, and 10's that went on to college teams, etc. The girls were really polished with great form. Now, I am beginning to realize, I think it's just that they are holding girls back when they are well capable of moving up a level, simply to win. Personally, I would rather have DD out of competitions altogether, and focus on improvement of strength, flexibility and skills, rather than keep her back at a really low level of competition, until she is scoring high 9's on all events and "winning". How do I approach this with them, so as not to upset anyone or look like I am questioning them. I really do NOT care if she competes at all, but I refuse to have her compete another season at what I consider a "rec" level that she's already done just because she didn't medal. I would much rather have her moved up, and keep her out of meets until they feel she's ready to be successful. I don't even care what "level" she is, so long as she's learning, and moving forward. I think good sportsmanship is more important than medals, and I worry this philosophy of sandbagging (so to speak) is really poor sportsmanship and not something I want to teach my DD.