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Well thi is the internet so an exact transcript of the conversation would be handy.Your not recapping the event in the same way as the OP described. Kindly teaching and modeling good nutrition is different than how the op describes, which is being routinely told to cut back her dd's calories. It doesn't sound like a nutrition consultation to me, it sounds like judgement.
It's hard to be objective about weight. I look at the picture of that gymnast and see a strong, beautiful 9 year old girl. Obviously the coach doesn't see it the way I do. That coach needs to back off and let the pre-pubescent's pediatrician give this mother advice. It wouldn't take too many episodes like that for me to say, buh-bye...