Avasmom
Proud Parent
Let me preface this by saying that my daughter is on xcel bronze. I was at the gym watching my daughter and a parent asked me in front of lots of other parents why my daughter took tumbling in addition to being on team. I responded because she wants her robhs competition ready. Her response was why she can't compete it. I disagreed and said she can if it looks good. I already discussed this with her coach and she gave me the answer of if it looks good then yes she can. The mom responded by saying that that is harder level skills and she would be deducted. I remained quiet because I do not like to argue and obviously she felt she was right. I know nothing about deductions so please fill me in if she is correct.
Then later she pointed out the mistakes my daughter was making while practicing. I didn't even notice because it's practice. Is this a normal gym mom behavior to point out other kids mistakes?
Is it normal for the moms to be cliquish and make other moms feel out of place if they aren't in their clique? If my daughter didn't love it there I would consider leaving based on the behavior of the moms. Maybe I need to be meaner and stand my ground but I shy away from confrontation. Anyone have advice for this situation?
Then later she pointed out the mistakes my daughter was making while practicing. I didn't even notice because it's practice. Is this a normal gym mom behavior to point out other kids mistakes?
Is it normal for the moms to be cliquish and make other moms feel out of place if they aren't in their clique? If my daughter didn't love it there I would consider leaving based on the behavior of the moms. Maybe I need to be meaner and stand my ground but I shy away from confrontation. Anyone have advice for this situation?