Hi. My daughter is 6 and she started preteam earlier this summer. We had her taking recreational classes at two different gyms - each had different teaching styles, which we found helpful. One invited her for pre-team and one did not.
At the one that did not invite her, I was given the distinct impression that if she was not selected for pre-team by 5 years old that she would never be on a team in that gym. I actually called and asked informally for information about pre-team and was told that they looked for certain things that they could not identify to me and that what skills a child could or could not do had little to do with it. But then into the conversation, I was told that parent commitment, of course, played an important factor. After that when asked for our names, I kindly refused and ended the conversation. It left me with this feeling as if we were at a yearling sale, inspecting a horse's hoofs, and teeth, etc. I also had the impression (and it was confirmed informally for me by someone from the gym) that if my daughter hadn't been invited to pre-team early, her opportunities at that gym were nil.
Also, interestingly, with respect to this same gym, a coworker who's daughter is a year older than mine told me that her daughter was pre-team and she was dropped because she grew too tall for their liking.
Anyway, we, of course, went with the gym that invited my daughter and she's doing pretty well. But I was curious as to what others thought about this kind of approach by the gym. I can understand being selective, but don't some girls drop out along the way? Wouldn't you want to leave the door open for young stars that might bloom a year or two later?
Just curious......afterall it changes nothing for us.
At the one that did not invite her, I was given the distinct impression that if she was not selected for pre-team by 5 years old that she would never be on a team in that gym. I actually called and asked informally for information about pre-team and was told that they looked for certain things that they could not identify to me and that what skills a child could or could not do had little to do with it. But then into the conversation, I was told that parent commitment, of course, played an important factor. After that when asked for our names, I kindly refused and ended the conversation. It left me with this feeling as if we were at a yearling sale, inspecting a horse's hoofs, and teeth, etc. I also had the impression (and it was confirmed informally for me by someone from the gym) that if my daughter hadn't been invited to pre-team early, her opportunities at that gym were nil.
Also, interestingly, with respect to this same gym, a coworker who's daughter is a year older than mine told me that her daughter was pre-team and she was dropped because she grew too tall for their liking.
Anyway, we, of course, went with the gym that invited my daughter and she's doing pretty well. But I was curious as to what others thought about this kind of approach by the gym. I can understand being selective, but don't some girls drop out along the way? Wouldn't you want to leave the door open for young stars that might bloom a year or two later?
Just curious......afterall it changes nothing for us.