I never really gave this much thought until recently. DD says that she feels like head coach is always correcting her, much more than anyone else in her group - and really the girls are all very similar right now. Most of the repeaters are getting very similar scores.
DD feels like at practice he will tell her to fix something or that she is doing something wrong and she feels like it is unwarranted, especially when another senior coach just told her it looked good. Then, another girl will take her turn and the HC will say "good job."
I told DD that I would be worried if he told her nothing - that would make me think that he didn't care about development or that she was a lost cause, so to speak. But she feels a little beaten down and said she just wished he could balance his comments - something good and then all of the corrections. Then she said, sometimes it makes me feel like he doesn't like me.
That made me sad and mad. Have you guys ever felt this way??
DD feels like at practice he will tell her to fix something or that she is doing something wrong and she feels like it is unwarranted, especially when another senior coach just told her it looked good. Then, another girl will take her turn and the HC will say "good job."
I told DD that I would be worried if he told her nothing - that would make me think that he didn't care about development or that she was a lost cause, so to speak. But she feels a little beaten down and said she just wished he could balance his comments - something good and then all of the corrections. Then she said, sometimes it makes me feel like he doesn't like me.
That made me sad and mad. Have you guys ever felt this way??