thanks! no trauma here. as is said i was really lucky and most of germany (excuding perhaps the town of heinsberg) never experienced anything like italy or ny or madrid or france. the kid mentioned so sick is back at school now every other week like all kids here (50% of all the classes are still done online), we do 50% classes for social distancing and make them wear masks during lesson and on school grounds (not all schools do that here, we decided to do it, feels safer). she is totally fine or so she says and acts and don't think she is traumtized but of course i don't know that for sure. i personally would just recommend to think really hard if whatever you are planing to do which is not totally necessary is really worth the risk to you and yours. and also think of all the people that could get infected by you or your kid asuming you go lucky and do not suffer greatly like some (! not all) infected people do. this virus is like the lottery, you never know what it will or won't do to you.