wallflower
Proud Parent
This question is not for me, but got me thinking because a friend asked me advice in regards to her DD. My DD is very, very happy at our gym with her level, her coaches, everything etc. I'm just wondering if I gave good advice.
So her DD competed one level in the fall and she wanted to compete a level up in the spring. The mom thought this was the plan and was told by one coach that she could do it. Now it seems the gym has decided that is not a good idea and they aren't going to allow her DD or her group do that. This mom is thinking of leaving the gym because she really wants her to compete up a level in the spring and generally because she is just upset about the situation.
I cautioned her that I don't think leaving for that reason is a good idea. They live 5 minutes from the gym. They have great coaches. In general they are happy at the gym and it's a good gym. The DD has a good peer group and I told her in the end it won't matter one bit what level she competed this fall. They will all end up in the same place if they stick with gymnastics and it isn't a race.
I guess I just don't take leaving gyms very lightly. We do the 60 minute drive. I would never give up the 5 minute away gym provided it was a pretty decent gym if I had that option. I would never give it up just so my DD could compete 1 level higher a little sooner. Those that drive 5 minutes have no idea of the sacrifice that it is to drive a kid an hour away daily. It is your life.
I guess in the back of my mind and based on things this mom has said to me, I think that she is really just looking to move her to another gym with more "elite" capabilites. She is an 8 year old level 4. I think its a little early to be making that decision or even thinking the kid has the ability to reach that level. Level 4 isn't a great indicator of gymnastics success in my mind.
Thoughts?
So her DD competed one level in the fall and she wanted to compete a level up in the spring. The mom thought this was the plan and was told by one coach that she could do it. Now it seems the gym has decided that is not a good idea and they aren't going to allow her DD or her group do that. This mom is thinking of leaving the gym because she really wants her to compete up a level in the spring and generally because she is just upset about the situation.
I cautioned her that I don't think leaving for that reason is a good idea. They live 5 minutes from the gym. They have great coaches. In general they are happy at the gym and it's a good gym. The DD has a good peer group and I told her in the end it won't matter one bit what level she competed this fall. They will all end up in the same place if they stick with gymnastics and it isn't a race.
I guess I just don't take leaving gyms very lightly. We do the 60 minute drive. I would never give up the 5 minute away gym provided it was a pretty decent gym if I had that option. I would never give it up just so my DD could compete 1 level higher a little sooner. Those that drive 5 minutes have no idea of the sacrifice that it is to drive a kid an hour away daily. It is your life.
I guess in the back of my mind and based on things this mom has said to me, I think that she is really just looking to move her to another gym with more "elite" capabilites. She is an 8 year old level 4. I think its a little early to be making that decision or even thinking the kid has the ability to reach that level. Level 4 isn't a great indicator of gymnastics success in my mind.
Thoughts?