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nevertooold
What I am hearing is that you are looking for a way to help your daughter learn the relationship between hard work and success.
5 is not too young to learn that.
I agree with previous posters that bribery is not the answer. But neither is allowing her to goof around and waste your time and money. It is her sport, but it is your time too, and your money. As a parent I do not appreciate my children wasting either of these for me.
I would explain clearly to her my expectations such as... quiet and listening when the instructor is speaking, following directions, putting forth her best efforts, not distracting others, etc.
I would make a simple chart with 2 sides, "worked my best" and "did not work my best" and ask her after practice each day to put a sticker on one side of the chart. Do not argue about where she puts the sticker. Let her know that after a set period of time (maybe 1-2 months) you will count up the stickers and if she is not willing to work her best most of the time then you will not continue to waste your families time and money. Having fun and playing is an important part of childhood, but it can be done at home or at the park for FREE.
Just an idea.
5 is not too young to learn that.
I agree with previous posters that bribery is not the answer. But neither is allowing her to goof around and waste your time and money. It is her sport, but it is your time too, and your money. As a parent I do not appreciate my children wasting either of these for me.
I would explain clearly to her my expectations such as... quiet and listening when the instructor is speaking, following directions, putting forth her best efforts, not distracting others, etc.
I would make a simple chart with 2 sides, "worked my best" and "did not work my best" and ask her after practice each day to put a sticker on one side of the chart. Do not argue about where she puts the sticker. Let her know that after a set period of time (maybe 1-2 months) you will count up the stickers and if she is not willing to work her best most of the time then you will not continue to waste your families time and money. Having fun and playing is an important part of childhood, but it can be done at home or at the park for FREE.
Just an idea.