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My boys are on a team with one other boy in their level, although with the new season there will probably be more kids in the same level. My boys really like this other boy, and they call him their best friend. We've hung out with him and his mother outside of gym time. The boys have become quite close. However, I've come to terms that the mom is... I'm not sure how to put this lightly. She is not someone I can be friends with and she has said some things out of the blue that were misconstrued by her and twisted. For a simple example, my children help sell produce from our farm, and I asked her if she wanted to buy any explaining that we only grow organic produce and that it's the family business, etc. She told me I was being pushy and she didn't appreciate it, and some other negative comments. I was astonished. We are starting a CSA with our farm and we discuss this kind of stuff with other families without this kind of reaction. Her dramatic response isn't the first time this has happened, and there has been other strange stuff that has occurred with her and her family.
I feel it would be a toxic situation to try and be friends, or even friendly, with her. I'm not sure how to limit contact since my kids enjoy her son's company so much, and because we're constantly thrown together in gym and in the community (small town, same schooling situation). I want to be as far away as possible from her. I grew up with a toxic parent and this is very triggering for me. How do you all handle other gym families being around you and your kids when it is, shall I say, a very poor match?
I feel it would be a toxic situation to try and be friends, or even friendly, with her. I'm not sure how to limit contact since my kids enjoy her son's company so much, and because we're constantly thrown together in gym and in the community (small town, same schooling situation). I want to be as far away as possible from her. I grew up with a toxic parent and this is very triggering for me. How do you all handle other gym families being around you and your kids when it is, shall I say, a very poor match?