Hi everyone, I'd love opinions on this because I honestly have know idea what the right course of action is here.
My DD's level 3 group recently started serious uptraining for level 4. There's one girl in her group who's had to sit out a bunch and has missed out on a lot of uptraining because of an injury. Yesterday my DD told me that this girl told her she was faking the injury because she's scared of one of the skills they started doing.
So my question is... is this my business? I know this girl's mom is a bit of a cgm and puts a lot of pressure on her to be the best so I'm sure that's a contributing factor. My first instinct was to tell this girl's mom, but now I'm thinking it would be better to just stay out of it. I also worry because my DD is still little and not the best at keeping secrets and I certainly don't want her accidentally telling anyone. I feel bad for the girl who obviously doesn't think she's allowed to just say she's scared. I feel bad to the mom who's been spending time and money taking her to doctors trying to get a diagnosis. I just feel like this is a bad situation all around and I'm not sure if telling the girl's mom would be helping or hurting. Thoughts?
My DD's level 3 group recently started serious uptraining for level 4. There's one girl in her group who's had to sit out a bunch and has missed out on a lot of uptraining because of an injury. Yesterday my DD told me that this girl told her she was faking the injury because she's scared of one of the skills they started doing.
So my question is... is this my business? I know this girl's mom is a bit of a cgm and puts a lot of pressure on her to be the best so I'm sure that's a contributing factor. My first instinct was to tell this girl's mom, but now I'm thinking it would be better to just stay out of it. I also worry because my DD is still little and not the best at keeping secrets and I certainly don't want her accidentally telling anyone. I feel bad for the girl who obviously doesn't think she's allowed to just say she's scared. I feel bad to the mom who's been spending time and money taking her to doctors trying to get a diagnosis. I just feel like this is a bad situation all around and I'm not sure if telling the girl's mom would be helping or hurting. Thoughts?